Cycle of Life

I was telling Garvesh yesterday night at dinner that I found it more difficult to have good conversations with a wide range of people. I remember being able to talk to more girls and guys in high school and middle school. Garvesh made a good point - our personalities stabilize over time, and we know what we want in others. So, once we talk to them for a few minutes, we can make a quick judgement and know whether we want the conversation to keep going or not. Social circles just become much tighter as we get older. Once things fully stabilize for us we have kids and live through them. And over and over again.